Saturday, July 30, 2005

 

Visitation

I knew it! I knew I’d get in trouble by posting reasons for my skepticism. I’ve been hexed. I just read Bitch by Elizabeth Wurtzel, and now I'm officially haunted. This morning I was visited by my own oversimplified stereotype of a “bad girl”. Suddenly I envisioned Marlene Dietrich at by my bedside this morning, blowing cigarette smoke in my face. After wiping my eyes, I decided to ask her a question.

“Hey, what’s the deal with labeling women ‘good’ or ‘bad’ anyway? Most people are complex. Isn't using the label 'bad girl' encouraging oversimplification in the perception of women?”

"Face it, darling--there's freedom in using simple terms. There's incredible freedom in being labeled a 'bad girl'. It's easy to remember, too."

"So you're saying the simplicity of the term--and the freedom involved--makes everybody want to be a 'bad girl'? I always thought the only time the term 'bad girl' should be used is if you are housetraining a female puppy. You're saying that in reality every woman wants to be a bad girl?"

“Sure, sure—all of them want to be Bad Girls, Darling—until they get strung up on the stake and the torch is lit. It’s amazing how much being a social leper messes with your face.” My inner Dietrich declares, taking a drag off of her long cigarette encased in an onyx holder. All of my resolve for quitting smoking vanishes. Why is it even months or even years after I quit smoking, seeing classic movie stars smoking makes me wish I could still inhale? I turned to my inner Dietrich.

“Hey, could I bum one of those?”

“You quit.”

“Yeah, but it doesn’t mean I don’t miss them.”

“Forget it—I only share cigarettes with men.”

“Bitch.”

“Precisely.”

“Why can’t you be Rosalind Russel's character from His Girl Friday? I always liked her.”

”Ask your unconscious.”

“That’s the problem with my unconscious. I never know what it’s up to. Next time, however, I’m going to ask it to send somebody I can stand to talk to.”

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